Tomorrow will be a wonderfull day, sun is shining, 25 degrees Celsius, my beautiful bride and about 160 guests from The Netherlands, Denmark, Germany, Belgium, Austria, Switserland, Canada, America, Ukraine, Italy and India!
As I often was bored and annoyed not to understand foreign ceremonies that I attended myself, I arranged translations in Vietnamese and English. This way I trust everyone can understand what beautiful things the civil official will be saying about mine and BT’s wedding.
Here is the English translation for anyone who is interested to in the official ceremony:
June 7th 2008, Wedding ceremony of Ha and Bach-Ton
Translation of the words held by Mrs. Adriana Oskam, civil official for the Berheze Municipal
Welcome dear sweet bride and groom and guests to these unique historic grounds.
————————–History Castle Heeswijk——————————
The history of Castle Heeswijk goes back before 1080. The first build was the so called ‘Motte-Toren’ (Motte-Tour). In 1629 the half brother of Frederik Hendrik to capture Castle Heeswijk and soon after ’s Hertogenbosch. The history of the castle is characterized with decay and rebuilding in grandeure. Around 1670 the castle must have been a very comfortable environment as even the French king Louis the 4th lived on the premises.
Baron Andrè van de Bogaarde van Terbrugge repurchased the castle in 1830. Through him and his family many historical artifacts were gathered, making the castle too small. In 1835 the castle wing was added and soon after the chamber of arms was built in 1870. This place today functions as a museum and the location for wedding ceremonies.
———————- Introduction of today’s special people ————————
The parents of Bach-Ton, yes dear lady, if we go back 27 years you have taken all the care to write history as Bach-Ton came into this world as a healthy baby girl. Bach-Ton and Ha talk about her parents as they are very caring for their children. Ha was born in Vietnam and in the beginning the relations were very hard to keep, as religion and politics played a role between the families. It is nice to see that today we all can be here in peace for the beautiful couple.
The direct relatives:
- Hai, the twin brother of Ha
- Binh, the oldest brother of Bach-Ton and also her witness. Bach-Ton tells that you have always cared and protected your younger borther and sisters
- Luan, the second brother of Bach-Ton
- Thu-Ha and Thanh Thuy, the sisters of Bach-Ton
The other witnesses:
- Yuk Chi, Bach-Ton’s best friend, where she always can be herself. You understand how she feels and thinks. Your connection is very close
- Eduard, Ha’s friend, you are efficient in your work, doing your work in as less time as possible. You live nearby the bride and groom and see them often.
- Koen, Ha’s best friend, Ha talks of you as someone who is always looking to get ahead, for a better carreer, for a better life. You have a positive look at life and want to get all you can out of yourself. Ha, Eduard and you have known each other from the University and have always kept a close bond.
As friends know you well, they can also tell many things about you that I do not know and cannot tell. The witnesses are invited to hold their speeches …
————————- Exchanging vows ————————–
Then the time has come that I will officially declare you husband and wife for our laws. Yes Ha, on the airplane you could not propose to her like you wanted to, but on a romantic shore in California you certainly succeeded. And to hear the answer of Bach-Ton again I ask you to stand up and to take each other’s hands. Before I announce the wedding vows I first want to speak your vows to each other …
————————- The official part ————————–
Official part taken by the special cival official, Adriana Oskam
Hong Ha Vo, will you take as your lawful wife, Thi Bach-Ton Nguyen and do you promise to be faithful to fulfill all duties that are bounded by law to marital state? What is your answer on this? …
Thi Bach-Ton Nguyen, will you take as your lawful husband, Hong Ha Vo and do you promise to be faithful to fulfill all duties that are bounded by law to marital state? What is your answer on this? …
Then I, as civil official of the municipal of Bernheze, in the name of the law, announce that the wedding between Hong Ha Vo and Thi Bach Ton hereby is fulfilled for the greater part.
I wish you, that the strength will be given to you to keep your promise to these vows until till the end of days.
The rings will be put on each other’s hands …
Closure of the official part
————————- Short speech of Adriana ————————–
I have asked the bride and groom how they viewed each other, what made them so special towards the other.
Ha said, Bach-Ton is very sweet, with a very strong opinion. I am very happy to have chosen for here. She is always near, on the couch during the late hours when I work at home.
Bach-Ton, Ha is very sweet for you and tries to arrange everything well for you. Though he always has the risks of an entrepreneur, he always tries to make sure that you’re safe. You said, I have seen Ha grow from a student to an entrepreneur with a strong vision. And as yourself, you work as a management assistant, even for Ha.
Ha, you have for own IT company, a dynamic company where young people work. Thinking of internet strategies for big companies, mainly big publishing houses. You both enjoy travel and the international aspect of work and life. Every year you take a long break to go afar. Also city trips can often be found on your todo list.
Ha, you said: “I am very happy when it is weekend”. Then you enjoy the charms of the small things in normal life. Doing your groceries together, taking a nap or a quick bite at the fish-cart, just when nothing is a must. And when you come back from your trips abroad, you still find the pleasure and luxury that Bach-Ton is around to pick you up.
Keep it this way, this feeling. You happily spend your time with friends and family, so I will end with some truths about THE TIME.
————————- TAKE THE TIME ————————–
Take the time to play,
that is the secret of eternal youth.
Take the time to love and to be loved,
that is a mercy on this earth.
Take the time to read,
that is the source of knowing.
Take the time to make friends,
that is the voice of happiness.
Take the time to laugh,
that is the music of the mind.
Take the time to thing,
that is the source of action.
Take the time to give,
life is too short to be an egoïst.
Take the time to work,
that is the price of success.
Dear bride and groom, I wish you all and all your loved ones a wonderful day on this unique location, castle Heeswijk and of your own civil official ….
ALL THE LUCK OF THE WORLD.
Heeswijk, June 7th 2008
Adriana Oskam